Because Porno’s have people going for it in an unrealistic fashion, men think that this is the way to have sex, but think what it would be like if the took the slow way, it wouldn’t have the same excitement, it would be boring for us to sit and watch them take the slow lane, so they take the fast lane and keep us interested.

When it comes to our ladies alot prefer the slow lane rather then the fast and hard lane, but the slow lane has benefits for us both.

Unlike the movies of the hard and fast sex try taking the slow lane, by doing this you will be able to explore and discover so much more, here are just a few advantages of taking the slow lane.

Firstly you are able to explore more and feel her body all over there is more to a her then her breast and twat. Try massaging her feet or use your mouth and play with her ears. Still not sure if you want to take the slow lane?

Well women are turned on by kissing and touching all this exploring is turning her on making her more hornier, before long she will want you more and more and she will be moaning and wanting you inside her more and more. Try setting the mood al little more by having candles lit, kinky under wear or a sex toy.
Don’t you love to hear her moan and feeling the tingles down her spine?

For numerous orgasms, try out different techniques of foreplay before taking the slow plunge. The more familiar you both become with each other’s bodies the more intimate your sexual encounters will be.
Consider her needs and make her feel special as every sexual experience means so much more to a women.

Try some of these thing and as you explore you will discover different pleasure, you will have her begging for you, she will want you more and more each time, then you get the satisfaction of watching her want you and moaning at the thought of you just touching her.

There is a large range of sex positions, but here I have just the basic sex positions to start of with.
The idea of having sex is to experience pleasure with each other, there for there is no right or wrong way to have sex as long as you are both enjoying the experience.

We all have our favourite position weather its sitting lying down or standing up, but over time and trying out new positions you will discover what works best for you and your partner.

When trying a new sex position the men should slowly and gradually insert his penis and start slowly, yo you are both confident in this position and discover what’s angel brings the most pleasure.

Missionary position

The man gets on top, while the woman is lying on her back. Should be facing each other. The man holds his weight using either his hands or elbows while between the woman’s legs. In this position if the female is lying just right she will be able to feel the mans pubic bone rubbing on her clitoris…bringing on an orgasm.

This position is the most common for the western culture; the Christian missionaries believed it was the proper position back in nineteenth century, and less animalistic then the other sex positions.
In believing this they tried to convince the foreigners to use the missionary sex position.

Women on top

Alot of women like this sex position as she can control how deep and how fast each stroke is. The women can also enjoy better stimulation of the clitoris while on top.

Do perform this position the women can either squat or kneel over her partner, you also have a choice to face each other, or she can choose to have her back to you.

The man can also sit on a chair and have her squatting over him allowing her to place her feet on the floor.

Lying on your sides

This particular position allows alot more body contact. While having sex in the spooning position it allows the front area to be open making it easier for him to fondle with her, or allowing her to masturbate.

Men find they can last alot longer in this sex position, A deep stroke works well in the position and different angles create different pleasure experiment first then find what angle gives the most pleasure. try with her upper leg up and down. While lying on your sides.

This position works well for women who are in their last few months of pregnancy, be careful not to fuck too deeply.

Standing up

The adventurous couples find this sex position both interesting and exciting, as the women should be bending over to allow full access to her vagina the man can view his partner in a different way. This position allows the man to penetrate deeply, remember to let her get used to the position before picking up the pace.

Remember that this position requires balance so make sure you start in a good position, this also uses more energy then lying or sitting down.

If both of you dint want to stand get her sitting on a desk or bench top facing you this way the man has control of the thrust and the women has control of the angels by moving her hips, and masturbation can be easily performed leading to a much better orgasm.

Experimenting with new sex positions can keep the relationship interesting and you can both discover new pleasures with each other.

Okay, so we have all watched porn, that’s fine but have you ever tried to act porn out?
That could be a problem, like everything new that we try it usually fails or is a disaster in some way or another, sad to say it but the same goes fro acting out porn. You tell me how many girlfriends want you to cum on their face or be slapped on the ass by your dick?

Might seem a little depressing when you try acting out pron and it fails, but lets face it they are pros at it and that’s why they get big money for it. Yup sure enough we all dreamt of being a pro at sex, half the position they get themselves into are impossible for the average person, so don’t feel to bad about your performances porn movies star sex pros.

I’m sure there has been a sex act on a movie that has you wanting to go try it out, but to try it you would have to admit to watching porn, how embarrassing? Your thinking. But Just because you or your girlfriend are interested in a sex act doesn’t mean she or you want to lay around playing with sex toys all day.

Don’t be ashamed to ask to try something new, she too could want to try something, keep the communication field open when it comes to new sex positions and it could become the best thing for your sex life. But do remember this is not some random porn star you are doing it with, you all wake up with this person in the morning, not to mention some position are beyond our ability.

Keep an open mind and share your sexual desires openly, if you want a long lasting relationship you both need to be honest and not be ashamed of what you want to try and have fun with them, hey she might have some weird fantasises that you could make a reality for her. Either that or enjoy your porn movies, wont have to worry about acting out porn, but how boring sex is a two way thing both have to go along with each other.

Put a twist on your sex life do some role-playing have fun in the bedroom, step out of your comfort zone every now and then. But you are not a movie director so don’t tell her how to perform and keep the positions realistic.

While many people may think that blow jobs are a dirty form of sexual satisfaction they are in fact a different form of sexual adventure that may possibly Spice it Up with that missing something.

While it may not be a hard known fact it is true that by sharing the pleasure will in time come back to you 10 fold like charity.

So by giving head you to ge get “head Back” Giving a blow job can be a huge turn on possibly try the shower for your first blowie, kneel in front of your man lather up his cock and then watch as the excitement grows then was the soap of then you have a clean member to work on.

Put you mouth over the penis and feel the warmth and excitement as you suck don’t be scared to show you are in control and make sure your partner know this. If your partner starts to thrust use your teeth (be gentle) or your hand. Try flavoured lube to add a bit of sugar to the equation move to some where more comfortable.

Take his penis into your hands, see how slippery and sensual it is, gently massaging the shaft with both hands, occasionally teasing the head paying particular attention to the underside of the head don’t forget to be GENTLE !!!!!

Hold on to his cock, use your tongue flicking over the head, lick the head all over and use the flat of your tongue to cover more area, gently suck on the head, sucking it into your mouth at the same time flick your tongue back and forwards around the head. Pay particular attention to the underside of the penis and the head.

Run your hands over his inner thighs as you mouth moves on his shaft. Lower your mouth over his shaft and the trick to taking in as much as you can to deep throat is to breath out as you are taking him in.

For the ladies who don’t like the taste, when you feel your partner’s cock throbbing and you feel his hips starting to thrust against you, take your mouth of his penis and with your hand wrapped firmly around his shaft pump faster and faster. Let your partner tell you how fast and how hard to stroke him as he gets nearer and nearer to dropping his load for you.

As he ejaculates let him know that you are excited too. I love watching a guy cum so as he is crying out in pleasure, if you are enjoying it too then I am sure you will know what to do to Spice it Up .

So your about to head out and you are having doubts about your penis size. Are you feeling a little bit of hesitation that if you get luck and pick up that you may not be large enough to satisfy.

Well rest assured that you are not alone many men feel this same problem but like to keep these feelings to themselves. The important thing to remember that an average penis is 6 inches so if you are around this size then you have no concerns and infact even if you are smaller than still you may be within the range.

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To each her own; and that applies to what a woman wants in bed — either a fast fuck or the slow, smooth kind. However, it seems that most women prefer the sensual approach rather than the pound-pound-pounding away.

A slow, smooth approach will enable you and your partner to employ your senses and experience all the bliss related to the sexual experience. Feel her soft skin, see her lovely face, hear her moans, taste her mouth, and smell the scent of her body.

True, most films favor and highlight the fast and hard fucking. But that’s just on film, silly! That’s the way it’s supposed to look — quickly and vigorously. How else can they sustain your interest if they otherwise took the slow road? It’d be rather boring, wouldn’t it? So, in order to get that wild and exciting impression, the porn stars are instructed to take the fast road. That’s why men have created the illusion that this is just the way it is supposed to be done. Well, sorry to disappoint.

Besides there are advantages to the slow approach. One is that you get to explore her body more. It’s not just her breasts and her twat that matters. Have you tried licking her ears, touching her nape or the back of her knees, or massaging her foot? Well, you should. These are highly erogenous areas of the woman’s body’ and it’d just be too selfish of you if you don’t provide her the pleasure.

Women are turned on with kissing, caressing, licking (slurping even). It just sends her to the edge as you masterfully rein her back. This only makes her even hornier! She’ll want you more and more if you tease her; building up the aching need inside her. Don’t you just love hearing her moan and feel the tingling down her spine?

Build up her longing with romantic nuances like flickering candles, rose petals, fresh sheets, sweet music, kinky underwear or sex toy. This whole romantic package is important for her, so don’t you try to shortchange her. Try out various foreplay techniques first before taking the slow plunge. Intense and increased desire only makes way for numerous orgasms.

A slow approach also conserves your energy for that surging crescendo. If you thrust harder and deeper, you are in a rush to get there. You’re only forcing it; and it’s not as satisfying as it should have been otherwise. It could also give your honey a stiff neck or sore back, for that matter. Several seconds of frenzy rewarded by a quick orgasm is rather limiting. Why not extend your pleasure even more?

Learn how to control your urges. Build up her longing with slow, deliberate thrusts, pausing curtly, and constricting your inner muscles. Touching fosters a stronger connection; the more you are familiar with each other’s bodies, the more intimate your sexual encounters would be.

Every sexual experience means so much for a woman. So, try to approach your love-making with sincerity, confidence, and respect. You can show her this by making her feel special and by considering her needs. She may not say it out loud, but she needs more than a steely pecker inside her. She needs more than that, and you should know better.

The vagina itself is a very elastic environment which can expand on average to ~10 centimetres (4 in) in diameter during childbirth, and it also easily retains a tampon. Thus a woman’s vagina can tightly accommodate most penises from relatively small to large. It will generally accommodate and adjust to the object it surrounds. Discomfort can sometimes be experienced with unusually large objects, but the vagina can, over time, adapt.
According to Louanne Cole Weston, PhD licensed counselor, and sex therapist, in a May 2002 report by WebMD; several misconceptions have developed surrounding penile-vaginal intercourse. Cultural preferences may have exaggerated the importance of deep vaginal penetration in obtaining female orgasm.

The most sensitive area of the vagina is the section closest to the outside of a woman’s body, which is roughly 10 centimetres (4 in) in length. Given that the average penis size is above this length, most men should be able to easily reach and stimulate these erotic nerve endings.
In stark contrast, minor surgery without aesthetic can be conducted on the inner portion of a woman’s vagina without discomfort. Most women attest to a feeling of being “filled up” by larger than average penises, yet few can claim to feel erotic sensations in the deeper regions of the vagina Some writers have claimed that a shorter than average penis might better stimulate the G-spot, however the actual existence of the g-spot is doubted by most researchers.

Some women have reported enjoying stimulation of the cervix, although this may be confused with the anterior fornix (deepest point of vagina above cervix) or posterior fornix (back of vagina, behind cervix). The cervix, fornix, and cul-de-sac are within close proximity of each other, so there may be indirect and/or simultaneous stimulation between them.
The fornix is said to be another possible orgasm trigger area. Tests have shown that pressure on this area causes the vagina to lubricate very quickly. The area of sexual response in the anterior fornix has also been called the epicentre, T-Spot, AFE-Zone, AFE or A-Spot; while in the posterior fornix it has been called epicentre (as well) or cul-de-sac (since the cul-de-sac may be indirectly stimulated by pressure on the posterior fornix).

No matter the size of a man’s penis it takes a level of skill to stimulate the anterior fornix. The man with a shorter penis may also be able to stimulate the anterior fornix using some advantageous positions, which shorten the distance to the uterus.

Long penises (over ~20 centimetres (8 in)) can be susceptible to rubbing on, or striking, the cervix, which has been described as being rather uncomfortable, or sometimes painful. Over-stretching the back of the vagina can also cause discomfort, and this may be mistaken for cervix pain. Thus very long penises sometimes cannot be fully inserted. The exact depth depends on both anatomical dimensions and arousal of the woman, as well as the sexual technique used.

During sexual intercourse, the vagina lengthens rapidly after initial insertion from about 10 to 14 cm (4 to 5.5 in), but the final and initial depths vary from woman to woman ±2.5 cm (±1 in). The vagina (with proper arousal) will stretch to envelop larger sizes (up to a point) — about 19–23 cm (7.5–9 in) maximum on average (although more may be accommodated with long-term adaptation). As the woman becomes fully aroused the vagina tents (last ²⁄₃ expands in length and width) while the cervix retracts, meaning that with the right penetration angle long penises will slide over or under the cervix without directly hitting it (instead stretching the back of the vagina or anterior/posterior fornix). Enough foreplay to produce full arousal is generally needed to ready a woman for penetration by a large penis — although this same amount of foreplay is often recommended regardless of the man’s penis size. While a long penis normally isn’t a hindrance, there’s little to suggest it’s advantageous either.

A thicker penis may provide more friction against the vestibular bulbs, which are located in close proximity and anteriorly on either side of the urethra.

Women have confirmed in surveys the primary focus of the clitoris in sexual stimulation. Roughly three-quarters of women surveyed have reported difficulty reaching orgasm by vaginal intercourse alone, and just 7% are able to do this on most occasions. Many report requiring simultaneous clitoral and vaginal stimulation — regardless of the dimensions of the inserted object.

A penis whose stretched flaccid length is more than approximately 2.5 standard deviations below average size for the age group but otherwise formed normally is referred to in a medical context as a micropenis. Some of the identifiable causes are deficiency of pituitary growth hormone and/or gonadotropins, mild degrees of androgen insensitivity a variety of genetic syndromes, and variations in certain Homeobox genes. Some types of micropenis can be improved with growth hormone or testosterone treatment in early childhood. Penis-enlargement self-treatments are not effective for this condition

The smallest penis on record was reported in a medical journal by researchers from Oxford University’s Department of Physiology, Anatomy and Genetics. The researchers noted that patient “Alfred,” a male musician, in his early 30s, from Oxfordshire, UK “possessed a penis almost indistinguishable from a clitoris.” Currently there is much debate in the medical community as to whether patient “Alfred” was actually male or intersexed.

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Having an extremely large penis can certainly be a confidence boost for every man who is a part of the 9” plus club.

Any average man would eat their left nut to be bigger, thicker or last longer. But as true as this statement is it can also be an absolute nightmare when it comes to bedding a woman if you have an extra large penis.

If you’ve ever flicked through a women’s magazine, the general consensus is usually that bigger is always better. The stories women tell whilst sitting in a bar or cafe always leans towards “how big he was,” or “the biggest I’ve ever seen and how good it was,” but are they really telling the truth?

It can certainly put a downer on the end of what could have been the perfect evening when it comes to having sex, and your lady friend lays her eyes on your man meat for the first time and gasps. Not because she’s incredibly horny and can’t wait to get you inside her, but because she knows it’s way too much for her to take.

Instead of a pleasurable and naughty evening, it can turn into a painful experience for her and an embarrassing disappointment for you. Anal sex is most definately out of the question and oral is probably going to be a bit of a sensitive topic to approach.

So what can you do to remedy the situation and turn this night around? Chances are she might have fantasised about having a big cock inside her, but at the same time been a little scared to actually do it. To look upon your package may thrill her and turn her on, as she wants to know how it’s going to feel. So the best thing you can do is to take it very slowly.

Try not to scare her or force her to do anything she doesn’t want to do. Foreplay is probably your best place to start since playing with each other will help her to become even more aroused. It should also help to put her mind as ease when she sees she can really have fun with a huge cock.

The best advice I can give you when it comes to the actually penetration is to again go slow. Don’t just ram it in her, but ease in slowly. Start with just the head and as she adjusts to the size and starts to relax, you can go further. Just keep it gentle and slow, and the both of you are surely going to have some serious fun in the bedroom.

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Basic Sex Positions

There are many ways to enjoy sexual intercourse with your partner. If you are both having a good time, it’s right for you. That is what should be the important deciding factor. The entire reason we have sex is to experience pleasure with our partners, as long as both parties are having a good time, you are doing everything right There are a LOT of different positions for sexual intercourse!

The Positions

We’ll present the most popular positions, and what features make each one fun – plus any minuses to each position. Some people love to fuck while lying on their sides. Some people read the Karma Sutra and try some truly amazing positions for making love, and some prefer their own tried and true favourite positions.

Please remember that when trying any new sexual position, the man should be gradual inserting his penis into his partner and should begin with a slow stroke till both partners have had time to accustom themselves to the new position so that they feel more confident.
Missionary Style

The missionary position is the most common position for intercourse in the western culture. The reason we call it the missionary position is because in the nineteenth century, Christian missionaries considered it the only “proper” position for intercourse. These missionaries tried to convince foreigners to adopt this position as they claimed it was less “animalistic” than other sexual positions. What it basically is is the man gets on top of the woman, with both partners facing each other. He gets between her legs, inserts his penis, and lies on her while using his hands or elbows to hold up part of his weight and to move him. In reality, the man on top position can be pretty versatile. Some people enjoy this position, feeling it is intimate because you can see your partner’s face.

Woman on Top Many couples prefer the female superior position also known as the woman on top position. A lot of women like this position because they can control how deep and how hard the penis’ strokes are. By experimenting with the positions of the body to cause changes in the angles of insertion, the woman can frequently enjoy better stimulation of the clitoris lying on top. Also the woman can kneel over her partner or squat over her partner. She can face him or face away from him. A squatting position allows the woman to use her calves as well as her thigh muscles for motion. Or while squatting, she can put her feet on the floor in order to partly stand and then lower herself. This position is great if either the man or the woman wish to masturbate the woman’s clitoris. Woman on top is also a perfect position for a woman who likes to look at her partner’s face during intercourse.

Lying on Your Sides This is the best position for the woman who likes to masturbate during intercourse. It leaves her front area fully open to be touched. Many women find that the easiest position to allow use of a vibrator when being fucked from behind when both partners are on their sides. Also there are amazing opportunities for the man to fondle his partner’s breasts – or anything else he likes. Some couples find that far more body to body contact occurs while spooning on their sites, allowing them to feel connected with their partner. A lot of men also find they can last longer in this position because it does not allow as vigorous a stroke. It is not possible while spooning to easily enjoy a long stroke, but a deep stroke works quite well. This is an excellent position for intercourse when the woman is in her last few months of pregnancy as long as you are careful not to fuck too deeply. Experiment a little with this position – try it with the woman’s upper leg up, or down. Try thrusting in slightly different angles. You can find a LOT of different sensations using this position!

Standing Up Adventurous couples find standing during intercourse can be quite exciting. The easiest way is to have the woman bend over. This way, her vagina is available and open, and her partner will find himself able to penetrate especially deeply. Also you can enjoy looking down at your partner in a totally different way. If you’re a guy who enjoys using a little more athletic prowess, this position is a good one. You use more energy standing than you do lying down or sitting. Also it takes more balancing, so be sure that both partners have positioned themselves and are well-balanced before attempting to have intercourse while standing – you wouldn’t want to fall. Also some people sit the woman on a desk or dresser. The male stands while his partner sits with her pelvis forward and her legs apart at the edge of the surface. Man standing woman sitting is a great position because it allows the man intense control of his thrusts. Also, the women can control the angle that the penis enters her by shifting her hips, allowing her much better orgasms using this position and masturbation together. Experimenting with new sexual positions can keep sex fresh and new. Each new position can bring new experiences in touching, in angles, in prolonging your sexual experience or in making it more passionate. Some positions may allow one of you to have more intense orgasms, or to find different sensations and different feelings in joining your bodies.

Having new positions and experimenting with them can provide endless variety to any relationship, whether established or brand new.

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